Mary Osborne
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For those who are taking care of a loved one who is living with dementia, setting dementia management goals may help improve you and your loved ones overall quality of life.

Dementia is a term used to describe the mental decline of an individual whose symptoms are problematic enough to interfere with day-to-day activities. Dementia is not a specific disease. It is a group of symptoms caused by other diseases that may affect thinking, memory, reasoning, personality, mood, and behavior.
Dementia develops when certain parts of the brain are affected by diseases and infections that occur in the parts of the brain that have to do with memory, decision-making, and language. Alzheimer’s disease is the most common cause of dementia.
Many other diseases cause dementia symptoms. Some of these include Vascular dementia disease, Lewy Body Disease, and Parkinson’s disease. While some may believe that dementia is a normal sign of aging, this is a misconception. Dementia is not a normal sign of aging.
Dementia is referred to as a late-life disease that can develop in those individuals over the age of 65. It is estimated that 5-8% of individuals over 65 have some form of dementia. This percentage doubles every five years of age. By the time individuals turn 85 years old, there is a 50% chance of living with some form of dementia.
There are many different types of dementia. Some of the different types include:
Dementia is caused by damage to the brain. There are many different causes of dementia.
Degenerative Neurological Disorders.
Vascular disorders
Infections
Drug Use or Alcohol use
Depression
Build up of Fluid
Dementia symptoms vary depending on the type of dementia. Symptoms may include:
Memory impairment
Asking questions multiple times. Not remembering
Struggling to communicate with the correct word
Confusion
Struggle with money and numbers
Anxiety
Struggles carrying out tasks
Quick mood changes
Changes in behavior
Changes in personality
Trouble sleeping
There are seven progressive stages of dementia. These are further broken down into early, middle, and late-stage dementia.
In early-stage dementia, you should meet with your healthcare provider to develop a treatment plan and a support team. Meeting with an occupational therapist who specializes in dementia is an excellent option in this stage to help address areas of concern as well. If you reside in Texas, you can connect with me, Your Dementia Therapist, to help!
Common early-stage symptoms include
Memory loss
Confusion
Struggling with Sense of direction
Repeating yourself
Difficulty with familiar tasks
Struggles finding the right word in conversation
Loss of Interest in favorite activities
Confusion with places and times
Mood changes
Difficulties performing IADLs
In the middle stage dementia, symptoms increase as the disease progresses. Symptoms become more noticeable to those around you as the damage to the brain increases. In middle-stage dementia, day-to-day tasks become more difficult.
Common middle stage symptoms include:
More noticeable memory and thinking problems.
Speech problems.
Struggles with the concept of times and days.
Depressions and anxiety
More delusions may be noted
Hallucinations
Requires assistance with ADLs
Changes in appetite
Balance and coordination impairments
Changes in behavior
Late-stage dementia is also known as advanced dementia or severe dementia. This stage is the shortest dementia stage lasting one to two years. This stage requires the most help from others to help with your needs. Late-stage dementia symptoms may include:
Severe memory loss
Difficulty communicating through speech
Lose the ability to walk
Eating and chewing become difficult
Become Incontinent
Sleep more
Behavior changes
More prone to infections and Pneumonia
Normally require full assistance with ADLs in this stage
Receiving a dementia diagnosis may be difficult because many symptoms may be from other illnesses. It can be detected through a series of diagnostic testing, including medical history, review of symptoms, CT scans, cognitive tests, and labs tests. Consult your healthcare provider to give you a correct diagnosis.
For dementia management, nonpharmacologic and pharmacologic intervention is usually recommended. This helps manage cognitive, behavioral, and psychological symptoms of dementia.
A common question many people ask is, “Is dementia treatable?” Before addressing this, it is important to know the difference between treatable, reversible, and treatable.
Almost all types of dementia are treatable. And it is through various medications and alternative treatments that help make symptoms more manageable.
Currently, there is no cure for dementia, nor is it reversible.
There are some dementia disorders that, when treated, can stop further damage.
These include:
Side effects from drugs or alcohol
Removal of tumors
Removal of excess cerebrospinal fluid
Correcting Vitamin B12 deficiency
Correction of hypothyroidism
Correction of hypoglycemia
Depression

The purpose of the dementia management goals is to have regular appointments with your healthcare provider to monitor health, educate the individual living with dementia and the family, and get appropriate treatment to help manage symptoms.
Treatment goals also include:
Maintain quality of life.
Function as much as you can on your own in day-to-day activities.
Enhance cognition, mood, and behavior.
Provide a safe environment.
Engage in social activities.
Currently, there are 6 FDA-approved Alzheimer’s drugs that help treat symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease. These medications may help slow symptoms from becoming worse. The goal of these medications is to improve the quality of life in those currently living with cognitive symptoms caused by certain types of dementia.
There are several dementia symptoms that can be treated without medication. Some of these include:
Working with an occupational therapist is a perfect way to keep your loved one safe who is living with dementia. Occupational therapists help you keep your loved one safe by helping address safety issues,, providing tips on behavior management, and providing education on what to expect as dementia progresses. . If you reside in Texas, I would love to work with you to help you better care for your loved one.
Listening to music can be therapeutic to those who are living with dementia.
You can do many modifications to your loved one’s environment living with dementia. Some of the treatments include:
reducing clutter
hiding things that may cause a safety threat
and installing monitoring systems that alert you if your loved one begins to wander.
Help your loved one feel less frustrated by breaking tasks into smaller steps. Provide a structured routine that avoids undue confusion.

When you are trying to do dementia management, lifestyle changes can be made to help your loved one manage symptoms.
When you talk with your loved one who is living with dementia, look them in their eyes. You will want to speak slowly with simple sentences. Use hand signals when possible to help them follow along.
Encourage your loved one who is living with dementia to exercise. Evidence shows that when you exercise, it helps protect your brain. This also helps with balance, improves strength, and with cardiovascular health.
Plan activities that your loved one likes to do that they are still able to participate in. This can include gardening, yoga, cooking, painting, and many other activities. Do these activities with them or find a group that they can go to and socialize as they do an activity they enjoy.
Establish a nighttime routine. Often, those who are living with dementia struggle more at nighttime. Creating a routine at night can help them know what to expect to help them manage behavioral symptoms.
Post a calendar with important events and appointments on the wall. This allows your loved one who is living with dementia to know what is coming up and will enable them to feel some independence.
Plan early for the future. Ensure all documentation and paperwork is done and know their future wishes when their dimension symptoms progress.
Helping those who are living with dementia takes patience. So, to help with this frustration, it is important to set dementia management goals.
Individuals who are living with dementia will become more frustrated because they can no longer do what they once did. These tips can help manage dementia.
It is important to stick to a daily schedule. This allows your loved one to know what to expect without being thrown off with sudden changes.
For those who are living with dementia, different times of the day are much worse than others. Set appointments when they are most alert and refreshed.
Understand that things will take longer. While it is probably easier to do things for your loved one, allow them the chance and time to do it without making them feel rushed.
If your loved one can set the table, allow them to help. Give them tasks to feel included if it is safe to do so. As you involve them in decisions, they feel less of a burden to you as they help with simple tasks.
Your loved one who is living with dementia would like to make choices. Ask them if they would like Sprite or Root Beer with their lunch or let them choose between two shows. Allow them to make choices, but not too many options.
Those who are living with dementia need simple one-step communication. They become less frustrated trying to remember all the steps as you do this.
Try to limit the number naps, especially later in the day. This may help with a better night’s sleep.
Limit the distractions that are around your loved one living with dementia. Turn off the TV when eating or when conversing.
As dementia progresses, they will become more dependent on you for assistance. To reduce frustration, understand that you will need to be flexible. If your loved one wants to wear the same outfit every day, perhaps buy several of this same outfit.
When setting dementia management goals, it is important to focus on your loved one. Individuals who are living with dementia will all have different symptoms and progress differently. It is important to focus on your family members and give the best care possible.
Try to remain patient and flexible in order to offer the best support for your loved ones overall care.
References
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9170-dementia
https://www.alz.org/professionals/health-systems-clinicians/management
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/caregivers/in-depth/alzheimers-caregiver/art-20047577
https://www.alz.org/help-support/caregiving/care-options/in-home-care
https://homecareassistance.com/blog/dementia-how-to-care-for-a-parent-at-home
https://www.aplaceformom.com/caregiver-resources/articles/dementia-care-at-home
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/dementia/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20352019

My name is Mary, an Occupational Therapist here in Austin, TX. I help family caregivers navigate a dementia diagnosis by providing them with helpful digital resources and an option to join a monthly membership program to make life easier for everyone involved in care.
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